Everything is Awesome The LEGOⓇ approach to being an awesome coworker Paul Verbeek-Mast (@paul_v_m) Senior Software Engineer @ Confrere
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The great enemy of communication, we find, is the illusion of it. – William H. Whyte
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We have talked enough; but we have not listened.
– William H. Whyte
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(…) many leaders assume they are better at valuing diversity than they actually are (…) – Havard Business Review – Leaders Aren’t Great at Judging How Inclusive They Are https://hbr.org/2017/10/leaders-arent-great-at-judging-how-inclusive-they-are
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The great enemy of inclusivity, we find, is the illusion of it. – Paul Verbeek-Mast
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The early days of tech
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The early days of tech
ENIAC (Electronic Numerical Integrator and Computer)
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The early days of tech
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The early days of tech
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The early days of tech
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The rise of men
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The rise of men In 1967 alone, 700,000 people took the IBM Aptitude test
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The rise of men Of this 1378, only 187 were women
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[Programmers] dislike activities involving close personal interaction. A vocational interest scale for computer programmers - William M. Cannon & Dallis K. Perry
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The rise of men • Antisocial personality disorder favours men • •
by 3:1 ratio; Autism and Asperger’s is seen as high as 7:1; Antisocial women are seen as “not liking people”, while men are seen as a “lone wolf”
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[The] industry selected for antisocial, mathematically inclined males, and therefore antisocial and mathematically inclined males were overrepresented in the programmer population. The Computer Boys Take over - Nathan Ensmenger
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This in turn reinforced the popular perception that programmers ought to be antisocial and mathematically inclined (and therefore male).
The Computer Boys Take over - Nathan Ensmenger
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The rise of men
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The bro culture
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The bro culture
Joe Liamandt — Founder of Trilogy Software
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We’re elite talent; and it’s potential and talent, not experience, that has merit.
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The bro culture
• How many piano tuners are there in the • •
world?; How many golf balls fit in a standard double decker bus?; How much would you charge to wash all the windows in San Francisco?
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The bro culture Work hard, play hard.
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The bro culture Insane work hours, drinking, gambling and Vegas.
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The bro culture
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The bro culture
• Women; • People of colour; • LGBTGIA+; • People with a disability; • People in economic or social hardships.
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Make everyone feel welcome and included
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Make everyone feel welcome and included
Reach out to new colleagues
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Make everyone feel welcome and included
On-boarding buddy
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Make everyone feel welcome and included
Your whole team changes
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Make everyone feel welcome and included
Don’t assume that they will eventually learn
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Make everyone feel welcome and included
Use inclusive language
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Make everyone feel welcome and included
Use inclusive language • Put people first;
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Make everyone feel welcome and included
Use inclusive language • Put people first; • Avoid jargons and abbreviations;
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Make everyone feel welcome and included
Use inclusive language • Put people first; • Avoid jargons and abbreviations; • “Guys” is not gender neutral;
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Make everyone feel welcome and included
Use inclusive language • Put people first; • Avoid jargons and abbreviations; • “Guys” is not gender neutral; • Don’t underplay the impact of mental disabilities;
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Make everyone feel welcome and included
Use inclusive language • Put people first; • Avoid jargons and abbreviations; • “Guys” is not gender neutral; • Don’t underplay the impact of mental •
disabilities; Coding is also communication;
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Be humble
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Be humble Accept your limitations
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Be humble Listen
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Be humble How many times do you bring your phone or laptop to a meeting?
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Be humble Talk less, listen more
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Be humble
Let people be heard
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When you have a contribution to make in a meeting, how often are you able to do so?
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Be humble
Let people be heard • Introverts;
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Be humble
Let people be heard • Introverts; • Remote workers;
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Be humble
Let people be heard • Introverts; • Remote workers; • Women;
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Be humble
Let people be heard • Introverts; • Remote workers; • Women; • People of colour.
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Be humble
Let people be heard • Share the purpose of the meeting; • Include remote workers; • No talking over each other; • Keep it central; • Email a summary.
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You are awesome too!
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Be humble Find people who believe in you
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Be humble Stand up for what you believe in
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Be humble Be yourself
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Be humble A little bit of kindness goes a long way